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Whether it is for a special occasion or a token of appreciation, gift-giving started as a tradition many moons ago. Through the ornamentation, the thank you cards and ribbons, it has also been through a few amendments.

If you had to make changes to your gift-giving traditions, what are the changes you would go forth with?

This is what this excerpt will dwell into. Afterall, giving presents is about appreciation and acknowledgment towards the relationship you have with that said person. It shouldn’t be a matter of force, obligation, or monotony. Because then the true essence of gift-giving is lost.

So, before any further ado, let’s get into the gift-giving habits which can change your relationship with someone.

Gifts Are Made Of Unsaid Words

Through every exchange, there are thousands of unsaid words exchanged. So, let us craft these messages a little better with these habits.

1. They Are Not Just For Special Occasions

Special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays are indeed the best time to adore your special ones with presents. However, it is not the only time. Let’s face it; the surprise element is quite gone when you give something on the day they are expecting the most.

Why not surprise them with random tokens at other times of the year as well? Afterall, there is no occasion where they deserve presents. Adding to their life in the best way possible is also a reason to give them.

2. Do Not Always Go Overboard

Taking care of your wallet is also a gift you need to give yourself. Of course, we all love to pamper our loved ones, but no matter the luxury tag, it is the heartfelt messages which count.

There is no written rule that you have to go overboard in order to make someone feel special. A bouquet of freshly picked white lilies can do the same job.

Plus, if you are on a mission to make someone “feel special” more often than not, budgeting has to be a part of that planning.

Some non to expensive gifting items which you can go forth with are:

• Pampering kit with their favorite body and bath products.
• Flowers and chocolates. The classic but never fail to surprise (especially the new lady in your life!). You can read more to find here about where to get the freshest bouquets out there.
• Greetings card with a handwritten message on it.
• Small everyday mementos like keychains, coffee mugs, and coasters with some customization for them to remember you by.

3. Gifts Are Not Always Tangible

If you are planning on a gift (whether for a special occasion or not!), it doesn’t always have to be tangible. For some people, heartfelt sentiments weigh a lot more than tangible presents, which they will use and discard eventually.

Through everyday mundane conversations, you are likely to know what someone wants emotionally.

• Maybe they are craving more affection.
• Or is it time they are asking for it?
• Do they want you to be more understanding of their difficulty?
• Or, be plain better at remembering.

These are answers you will get when you start listening to their problems and subtle complaints. At the end of the day, gifts like time, commitment, and care last a long time.

4. Pamper Do Not Spoil

There will be times when you would want to buy them expensive gifts. Certainly, you cannot always stop yourself. However, it is not the same as spoiling someone.

Ensure your gift is thoughtful and something which can help them in the long run. Prevent yourself from giving them too many luxurious items since it can build a sense of expectancy from their end.

Again, do not be in debt to accommodate them!

Gifts & Relationships!

Gifts play a significant role in relationships, serving as symbols of appreciation, love, and thoughtfulness. Thoughtfully chosen presents can strengthen bonds, showing understanding and care for the recipient’s interests and desires.

They foster emotional connections, creating lasting memories and moments of joy. However, material offerings alone cannot sustain a relationship; communication, trust, and shared experiences are equally vital.

The value of a gift lies not in its price but in the sentiment behind it. Ultimately, the best gift one can give in a relationship is time, attention, and unconditional support, fostering a deeper and more meaningful connection.